Tuesday, October 16, 2007

Long Distance Relationships



Can it come to past? Will it be the same? Distance, Will it build or will it destroy? Well, too many conditions to consider. Too many factors affecting it.

What do we need?
Trust, faithfulness, hope, love, faith, perseverance, patience, commitment, time, friends, family… etc etc…

My friend just told me, no matter how busy you are, you have to communicate with the other individual.
For those out there who are having long distance relationship, Gambateh!!! It can work!!! Find ways of effective communication. Let the distance be a test for this relationship. View it as a relationship with a high enthalpy change without any catalyst. Even graphite can turn into diamond. Nothing is impossible =D

Physics, couple = 2 forces which are same in magnitude but opposite in direction, whose line of action does not coincide.
So even the direction is not the same, it will still take both to make a rotational motion, which can be viewed as the circle of life. =D

But can I say that if you are not willing to commit, DON’T START!!! But who am I to say it? =D

But remember, God is still the center.

But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. Matt 6:33

2 comments:

Rift said...

Expanding on that 'couple' idea, even with just one force, you can still produce a rotational motion. Which just goes to show that even if there isn't a 'couple', life still goes on.;P

I still prefer the phrase 'it takes two to tango' or even 'you can't clap with only one hand'. Effort has to be made from both sides, especially so in a long-distance relationship. If only one person is eager about it and the other less so, then I'll promise you it won't work. This is what I've learned from both experience and observations.

Serena Lim said...

Well, not to worry man, there is someone out there for each and everyone of us. The worst thing that we can do is jump into immature decisions. Don’t rush into things. Wait patiently and you’ll know when the time is right. Ask, seek and wait =D